Sermon Transcript – Naomi’s Lament

1 Year Lectionary – 1st Wednesday in Advent – 11/29/2023 | Pr. Chris Rosebrough

Welcome to the Teaching Ministry of Kongsvinger Lutheran Church. Kongsvinger is a beacon for the Gospel of Jesus Christ and is located on the plains of Northwestern Minnesota.
We proclaim Christ and Him crucified for our sins and salvation by grace through faith alone, and now, here’s a message from Pastor Chris Rosebrough:
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0:22A reading from The
0:29Book of Ruth chapter 1 in the days when the judges ruled there was a famine in
0:35the land a man of Bethlehem and Judah went to sojourn in the country of Moab
0:41he and his wife and his two sons the name of the man was alimac and the name
0:47of his wife Naomi and the names of his two sons were mahlon and Kon they were
0:53ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah they went into the country of Moab and
0:59remained a there but ALC the husband of Naomi died and she was left with her two
1:06sons these took moabit wives the name of the one was orpa and the name of the
1:12other Ruth they lived there about 10 years and both mlon and Kon died so that
1:19the woman was left without her two sons and her husband then she rose with her
1:25daughters-in-law to return from the country of Moab for she heard in the fields of Moab that the Lord had visited
1:33his people and given them food so she set out from the place where she was with her two daughters-in-law and they
1:40went on the way to return to the land of Judah but Naomi said to her two
1:45daughters-in-law go return each of you to her mother’s house may the Lord deal
1:50kindly with you as he has dealt with the dead and with me the Lord grant that you
1:56may find rest each of you in the house of her husband and then she kissed them
2:01and they lifted up their voices and they wept and they said to her no we will
2:07return with you to your people but Naomi said turn back my daughters why will you
2:12go with me have I yet sons in my womb that they may become your husbands turn
2:17back my daughters go your way for I am too old to have a husband and if I I if
2:23I should say if I should have hope even if I should have a husband this night
2:28and should bear Sons would you therefore wait till they were grown would you therefore refrain from marrying no my
2:35daughters for it is exceedingly bitter for me for your sake that the hand of the Lord has gone out against me then
2:42they lifted up their voices and wept again and Ora kissed her mother-in-law and Ruth clung to her and she said see
2:50your sister-in-law has gone back to her people and to her Gods return after your
2:56sister-in-law but Ruth saido not urge me to leave you or to return from following
3:01you for where you go I will go and where you Lodge I will Lodge your people shall
3:07be my people and your God my God where you die I will die and there I
3:16will be buried may the Lord do so to me and more also if anything but death
3:21Parts me from you and when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her
3:27she said no more so the two of them went on until they came to Bethlehem and when
3:33they came to Bethlehem the whole town was stirred because of them and the women said is this Naomi she said to
3:41them do not call me Naomi call me Mara for the almighty has dealt bitterly with
3:48me I went away full and the Lord has brought me back empty why call me Naomi
3:55when the Lord has testified against me and the almighty has brought calamity upon me so Naomi returned and Ruth the
4:03moabit her daughter-in-law with her who returned from the country of Moab and
4:08they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley Harvest oh Lord have mercy
4:14on us in the name of Jesus Amen you know sin is awful in fact sin
4:21leads to horrible consequences that are often times legitimately terrible to
4:26endure and quite painful phys physically painful psychologically painful
4:32spiritually painful and you’re going to note here the wages of sin is death this
4:37is most certainly true but God seems to be content to make sure that we’re paid
4:43those wages in small incremental payments it’s almost like having an apartment of sin and God has seen fit to
4:50make sure we get paid the rent every single month it’s a little bit awful if you think about it and so when we come
4:57to the story of Ruth and Naomi it’s important to note that this isn’t a
5:04story that begins with faithful Israelites in fact far from it I can legitimately say that IMC and Naomi have
5:13done something that is quite foolish it’s sinful if you think about it and as
5:18a result of it they paid a very heavy price Naomi being left holding the bag
5:24and the problem is is that when her husband died then her sons now we’ve got
5:30a big problem and that problem is is the way the property worked in ancient Israel women couldn’t own it and as a
5:37result of it she was in dire need of a redeemer somebody who can redeem her
5:43property but that would require a marriage and well this is for the later
5:49part of the chapter let’s just say that dried up old women having marriage proposals from Young Kinsmen redeemers
5:57is not really in the cards here all right that’s just not what’s going to go on so let me walk through this text and
6:02see if we can figure out what’s going on and along the way we’re going to note that in this first chapter Ruth the
6:09moabit woman is going to behave very much like Christ wonderfully so we have
6:15to keep this in mind types and shadows are the things we’re looking for we want to bring this back to Christ and of
6:20course it’s no coincidence that we’re reading this story during Advent because after all this does play take place in
6:27Bethlehem hm that seems like a good men for me if we’re going to be looking forward to the birth of Christ so here’s
6:33how the text reads in the days when the judges ruled there was a famine in the land and a man of Bethlehem and Judah
6:39went to sojourn in the country of Moab he and his wife and his two sons now this requires you to have read other
6:45portions of scripture if you read the book of the judges it’s a it’s not a good book okay
6:52after the children of Israel get into the land of Israel and Joshua dies and that generation dies we are all over the
7:00map well over and again you hear this refrain through the Book of Judges and again the people of Israel did what was
7:06wicked in the eyes of the Lord and they worshiped the bals and so God sold them into slavery to the moabites to the
7:12Philistines to the upit the ballet ties and all the other tits out there right
7:17all that being said this is how this goes and then what happens is that the people of Israel cry out and say God we
7:24were wrong have mercy on us God sends a savior a judge a deliverer they are
7:30rescued from slavery to these flee bitten tribes and then well the whole thing starts all
7:38over again over and over sounds a lot like my sanctification by the way it’s
7:44just it’s not a straight line into Glory it seems to be like this right that’s
7:49kind of the point and so here you can read between the lines a little bit by reading the cross references in the Book
7:55of Judges and so in the days when the judges ruled there was a famine well you’re going to note knowing your Mosaic
8:01Covenant knowing your book of Deuteronomy you’ll note that God did not promise the people of Israel famines he
8:07promised them plenty if if they obeyed the commands of God
8:15the fact that they were experiencing famine was God basically saying are you
8:20guys going to put those Idols away or not you’re going to keep worshiping Baal
8:25and listening to your neighbors that you know the Canaanites and all these other people and start worshiping their
8:30deities if that’s the case well guess what I’m going to lock the sky up Rain
8:36won’t fall crops won’t grow you’re going to get hungry and rather than go you
8:43know God is judging us exactly like he said he would judge us in the book of
8:48Deuteronomy for not being faithful and obeying his commands and worshiping only him you know what we need to do we need
8:54to repent we need to put away our idols and worship Yahweh alone so um ALC and
9:02Naomi and their sons come up with a great idea let’s leave the promised land
9:08and head to moabit territory and all the Norwegians said UA
9:15yeah that’s the correct lurgical response here so you can see what’s going on this is not a good setup all
9:21right but you’re going to note God is going to allow them to experience the consequences of their sin and rather
9:26than repenting fleeing the scene and well God’s not going to be content
9:32to leave all of them there so the name of the man was ALC and I apologize this
9:37is a bit gratuitous but every time I hear his name I hear a song running through my head Alim Alim Al you know
9:45the song right and so the name of the man was IMC and his wife Naomi and the names of the two sons were Mahon and
9:53kilon and they were ephrathites from Bethlehem in Judah sounds a lot like
9:59what’s going on in that new testament when we get there in just four weeks right so they went to the country of Moab and there they remained but Al LIC
10:08the na the husband of Naomi died and she was left there with her two
10:14sons and to make matters worse her two sons took moabit wives which they’re not
10:21supposed to do all right I don’t care how hot the Pagan chicks are you’re not supposed to marry the Pagan chicks
10:28that’s not how this work works so these good Israelite boys are not very good Israelite boys they have the hots for
10:33the moabit girls and so they marry them and the name of the one was orpa and the name of the other was
10:40Ruth they lived there about 10 years that’s more than a sojourn by the way
10:45I’ve been here for 10 years almost 10 years here in North Dakota Minnesota and it don’t feel like no sojourn you know
10:52it’s because I ain’t going anywhere anytime soon 10 years is a long time and both mlon and kilon they Di died so that
11:00the woman was left without her two sons and her husband this is disaster this is
11:07the ancient equivalent of bankruptcy we’ve got nothing I own property but I
11:12can’t actually own it outright I can’t get to that asite we are well no longer
11:19able to supply ourselves we are completely poor dependent upon charity of others at
11:26this point so then she rose with her daughters-in-law to return from the
11:32country of Moab and for she had heard in the fields of Moab that Yahweh had
11:38visited his people and given them food huh interesting word by the way
11:44visited Yahweh visited his people yeah that’s how it worked in the time of the judges isn’t it Yahweh visited his
11:51people sent a redeemer sent a judge delivered them which of the judges was it it doesn’t say was it was it Gideon
11:57was it Samson was it Barak it doesn’t say which it was we’re not exactly sure but when you read the Book of Judges it
12:04invokes all of those names where you sit there and go of course Yahweh visited his people because when he punishes them
12:12it’s so that they will repent and so note here having fled the scene and not repented up to this point
12:19they’ve now missed the visitation of God and they were completely in the wrong place they were in Moab rather than the
12:27promised land so she heard that Yahweh had visited his people and given them food so she set out from that place
12:34where she was with her two daughters-in-law and they went on the way to return to the land of Judah but
12:41Naomi said to her two daughters-in-law go return each of you to her mother’s
12:47house may Yahweh deal kindly with you as you have dealt with the dead and with me
12:53and Yahweh grant that you may find rest each of you in the house of her husband go go go back home find a new husband
13:01have a family enjoy all of that stuff so she kissed them and they lifted up their voices and they all wept this is what
13:08happens with women they cry you know so they’re all crying this is a sad departure and so they said to her no we
13:15will return with you to your people really let’s see if that’s true
13:21so Nai said well turn back my daughters why will you go with me have I yet sons
13:26in my womb that they may be become your husbands turn back my daughters go your
13:32way for I am too old to have a husband if I should say I have hope even if I should have a husband this night and
13:39should bear Sons would you therefore wait till they were grown now if you don’t know what’s going on here why would she say something like this okay
13:46Naomi an older lady at this point uh is basically saying if I went back and had a husband and had Sons would you wait
13:53for them to become adults cuz the idea here is that this is how this works
13:58worked is that if Naomi did get married then her son would then be required to
14:06marry one of the chicks and then the other son would be required to marry the other one in the and then produce
14:14Offspring for the dead brothers that’s a requirement of the Torah so that’s kind of a weird one okay
14:23kind of working this through an 80 a lady how old she doesn’t say maybe she’s 60 I don’t know it doesn’t it doesn’t
14:29say but she has a son at 60 and then these and then Ruth and and orpa how old
14:36are they 25 30 a 50-year-old woman marrying a
14:4220-year-old boy you know or you this it’s it’s starting to get a little weird and so I think orpa begins to come to
14:48her senses and go yeah maybe that’s not what I’m signing up for right kind of explaining how that all goes down
14:56so when um so so would you therefore refrain from marrying no my daughters it
15:01is exceedingly bitter for me to for your sake that the hand of Yahweh has gone out against me so they lifted up their
15:07voices they wept again orpa kissed her mother-in-law basically you can say orpa
15:13kissed her mother-in-law goodbye because now she leaves the story
15:19but Ruth clung to her and so she said see your sister-in-law has gone back to
15:24her people and listen to these words and to her God return after your
15:31sister-in-law what kind of awful advice is that listen your sister’s gone back
15:37to her family and to your deities that you Worship in your family go with her do the
15:43same no Israelites supposed to talk this way right no Israel israelit supposed to
15:49talk this way because there is only one God what kind of advice is this you want me to go back and commit
15:57idolatry huh you can kind of see where Naomi is not exactly the most Pious lady
16:03almost secular in her thinking and so you have to wonder if God is not working
16:09in her her own repentance to see that there’s more to the that more to life
16:16than meets the eye and that what scripture says is true man doesn’t live by bread alone but by every word that
16:22proceeds from the mouth of God which clearly she seems to have forgotten a little bit here your sister-in-law has
16:28has gone back to her people and to her God so return after your sister-in-law but now Ruth really comes through and
16:34listen to these words Ruth saido not urge me to leave you or to return from
16:40following you for where you go I will go and where you Lodge I will Lodge your
16:47people shall be my people and your God my God now here’s an interesting thing
16:54the way the sentences work out here watch what watch what happens where you
17:00go I will go future tense where you Lodge I will Lodge future tense your
17:08people shall be my people future tense and your God my God not future
17:16tense confession of Faith Ruth already believes in Yahweh we
17:23don’t know how this happened the text doesn’t say but by this statement the paying attention t to the grammar one of
17:30these things is not like the other right so your people shall be my people your
17:35God my God where you die I will die and there I will be buried and may Yahweh do
17:42so to me and more also if anything but death Parts me from you what a confession it may Yahweh do so to me
17:51more and more also if anything but death Parts me from you that’s her saying I believe in
17:57Yahweh I believe in Yahweh and because of that I if I did Wicked I would expect
18:02Yahweh to do more evil to me to cause more Calamity to fall upon me if I do
18:08not remain faithful to stay with you and here’s where she exemplifies Christ what does Christ say
18:15to us in the uh in the um uh Great Commission go therefore Make Disciples
18:20of all Nations baptizing them in the name of the father Son and Holy Spirit teaching them all which I have commanded
18:26you and lo I am with you always even until the end of the age
18:33that same faithfulness of Christ is exemplified here in Ruth she is going to
18:38be with Naomi through thick and thin through disaster and blessing and This
18:45Disaster has not turned her love away from her at all instead like Christ she
18:51steadfastly stays with Naomi Naomi doesn’t deserve this Naomi has a lot of
18:57issues that have to be resolved here for sure but when Naomi saw that she was determined to go with her she said no
19:05more now fascinating thing comes up next they end up going back to Bethlehem and
19:12here’s where I have to kind of prepare you for what’s going to happen we are going to hear
19:19Naomi lament you think of Lamentations the
19:24book of Lamentations that’s a lament did you know that there are over 60 Psalms
19:29in the scripture that are Psalms of lament where it legitimately sounds like
19:36people are either crying out to God in great pain wondering where he is or even
19:43kind of complaining to God about the bitterness of the circumstances that they find themselves in how long oh Lord
19:53David says will you forget me forever how long must I cry tears into my pillow
19:59and you not act according to my prayers things like this and so here’s the important thing is that we live in a day
20:06where unfortunately American positivity has had a horrible impact on
20:13Christian doctrine and I mean it in the worst possible way I’ve been recently doing some study on the foundations The
20:20Roots the origins of the Pentecostal movement okay and there’s a
20:27wonderful wonderful history written about it that takes us way back into American history and you’re going to
20:33note something there in the early phases of American History Americans were like
20:39insanely optimistic about their future they believed that they had a manifest
20:45destiny to bring democracy to the entire Western Hemisphere and they believed
20:51that they were going to just roll across the country and Conquer everybody for
20:56life liberty and the Pursuit of Happiness and this ended up having a huge profound impact on
21:03Theology and whose theology did it impact the most of all people John Wesley John Wesley and the methodists
21:11they embbeded this positivity and it’s that theology
21:17that then gave birth or it was the big chicken that laid the egg that became
21:23the Pentecostal movement and within the Pentecostal movement then you have today’s modern day name it and claim it
21:31Prosperity preachers God wants you to be the head and not the tail he’s going to give you prosperity and health and
21:37wealth and you’re going to be the oh yeah the bees knees and all this kind of stuff and the one thing you cannot do
21:44the mortal sin in those theological systems is to say anything with your
21:50mouth that is negative right because in their way of
21:57thinking you your words create
22:02reality right which is nonsense that’s witchcraft okay but I would note if that
22:10were the case then the story of The Book of Ruth would end very differently than it ends because we’re about to hear
22:19Naomi give the ultimate negative confession in the form of a lament and
22:26she is Ed in her soul and you’re going to note this throughout the scriptures
22:32and the scriptures teach us in the Psalms to do this we see example after
22:37example after example of Godly men venting their lamentation voicing their pain voicing
22:46their suffering acknowledging the Calamity that has befallen them or the people of Israel
22:53and I would note there’s an entire book dedicated to this process called
22:59Lamentations right now I would note something here I’ve never heard Joel ostein preach on Lamentations but I will
23:06not be asking asking David lovey to do so because he’ll twist it horribly but that’s a whole other story okay and yes
23:13I mentioned David ly in a sermon okay all of that being said listen to her words and take note
23:21it is healthy it is right it is Godly
23:27and it is modeled for us to give voice to the difficulties the suffering
23:35and the pain that we are going through that doesn’t mean that when we do so we are always correct in what we say and
23:43you’ll note that when we do so often times God is silent sitting by standing
23:50by waiting for us to kind of get it out because it’s part of the morning process
23:57of sin it’s part of the teaching process of being a disciple of Christ even
24:02Christ himself lamented in the garden and showed his lamentation when he said
24:08father if it’s possible please let this cup pass from me but again not my will be done your
24:15will be done right that’s a lamentation so The Story Goes On so the
24:21two of them went on until they came to Bethlehem boy that sounds a lot like a story we’re going to be reading shortly
24:27keep pointing it out because I this is the whole point of this text and when they came to Bethlehem the whole town
24:33was stirred because of them and the women said is this Naomi and she said to them do not call
24:40me Naomi call me Mara now a little bit of a note here Naomi in Hebrew means
24:48Pleasant okay don’t call me Pleasant my life is anything but that she says
24:53instead call me Mara and this kind of invokes a little obscure CED portion of
24:59the book of Exodus Remember When the Children of Israel they crossed the Red Sea and they’re starting now to head
25:05towards Mount Si and the first thing they run into after this this the uh the
25:12the Springs where they had the 70 palm trees after that they ran into a place called Mara the Springs of Mara and it’s
25:20noted because the water in the springs of mar was bitter it tasted terrible and
25:26you sit there and go why are we getting this detail and Moses takes a piece of wood Chucks it into the spring of Mara
25:34and then the waters become sweet and you scratch your head and go huh but then
25:40you read the church fathers and the church fathers have a very interesting way of reading that text they talk about
25:46the bitterness of sin and the consequences of sin but the wood represents the wood of Christ’s cross
25:52and by his death and his resurrection the bitterness of this life turns to the sweetness of the joys of
25:59Eternity keep that in mind so here she’s invoking yeah and the the word always is
26:05referencing itself so when she says call me Mara you should sit there and go oh wait that has something to do with that
26:10Exodus test text and it does and then she says this the almighty has dealt
26:16very bitterly with me I went away full and Yahweh has brought me back empty is
26:23she saying anything false no she’s speaking the truth but you’ll note that all the Joel Joel oits are going no
26:29don’t say that you’re bringing down a negative confession upon your own head you’re
26:34cursing yourself with your words wrong she’s not I went away full and the Lord has
26:43brought me back empty now you’ll note Ruth doesn’t speak up at this point
26:50because you’ll note that what she said was not true she did not come back empty
26:58she came back with a faithful daughter-in-law who loves her so much
27:03that she refused to be parted from her and she had repented of her worship of false gods and believes in Yahweh and so
27:11you’ll know Ruth’s silence here actually speaks because rather than sit there and
27:18go oh that’s it I’m heading back heading back to Moab don’t you’re treating me
27:24like I’m like chopped liver or something and liver is a terrible thing just want to make that clear all right and so you
27:30know you you say you came back empty but you have me you don’t even think I’m you don’t what is this right this is not how
27:36she’s talking by the way strongly recommend that you do not argue with your spouse by using words like always
27:42or never avoid those things like the plague right if you say to your spouse you never do this lie that’s not true or
27:50you always blah right lie again and you know you hurt your spouse when you talk
27:55this way because you’re not recognizing the good that they do and in your pain and your anguish you’re over lamenting
28:02things you’ve overcooked it and so your spouse could rightly say what you’re saying is not true what I I’ve done this
28:09that and the other thing why does this not count right but you’ll note this is where Naomi is bitter in Soul bitter in
28:18the sufferings bitter in her loss and she knows that the hand of Yahweh is the one that has been against her and from
28:25her point of view in her pain and her suffering she believes she’s come back empty that is not a slight against Ruth
28:31and Ruth doesn’t take it that way why call me Naomi why call me pleasant when
28:36Yahweh has testified against me and the almighty has brought Calamity upon
28:42me H so Naomi returned and Ruth the moabit her daughter-in-law with her who
28:50returned from the country of Moab and they came to Bethlehem at the beginning of the barley Harvest but you’re going
28:56to note here what a terrible start this is this is there’s so much problems here that
29:03that need to be resolved but this is your life and my life we’ve all suffered
29:08great loss because of our sin my sin your sin we’ve all experienced this kind
29:15of bitterness of soul in one degree or another and may even in our future have much more bitterness ahead of us we
29:22don’t know the losses or the pain or the difficulties that lie ahead for tomorrow
29:29ah that being the case you’ll note that it’s okay to lament but note then that
29:35Christ himself knows the bitterness of this life he himself wept when he lost
29:41his dear friend Lazarus he wept at his tomb he wept at the loss he wept at the
29:47de Devastation that sin has brought to each and every one of us and his
29:52solution was to drink to the drags the bitterness of God’s Wrath path on the
29:58cross so that you and I can be forgiven and reconciled to God so that through
30:05Jesus our bitterness in this life brought on ourselves by our own sin can
30:11be turned to the sweetness of the Forgiveness of sins reconciliation with God experiencing his Mercy receiving
30:18from him that inheritance that is given as a gift by grace through faith because of the great love that God has for us
30:26rather than the almighty bringing Calamity upon Naomi for the point of purposely bringing her to the bowels of
30:33Hell instead he is allowed Calamity to befall her so that she is now prepared
30:39to receive the great gift of his mercy and provision this is a good place to start
30:47and so brothers and sisters as we begin our journey through Advent a penitential
30:53season let the bitterness of your sin come come and feel it speak to God and
31:01tell him of the great pain and suffering you’re in because of your sin cry out to
31:07him and cry Lord have mercy on me I am a sinner let that bitterness of heart
31:15knowing that you have transgressed God’s holy law and like Naomi like ALC ma like
31:20Mahon and kilion we have deserved disaster because of our sin but know
31:26this that Christ has not determined that you experience his wrath he has instead
31:32determined that you are to be forgiven reconciled to him and that the inheritance that we all collectively
31:39lost when our parents disobeyed God in that Garden of Eden when they heard the
31:45voice of the serpent that said did God really say and then went on and ate from
31:50that fruit that was forbidden and caused us to lose the inheritance of paradise
31:55on Earth that note that God has determined to give that back to us for
32:01Christ himself went to the cross and his cross then becomes now the tree of life
32:07and he is leading us to that inheritance that will never tarnish can never be
32:13stolen will never blow away like the dust in the Sands of the Sahara or
32:20anything like that in a World Without End and so note God is working through
32:25our suffering as the scriptures says suffering produces perseverance perseverance character and character
32:32hope so in this opening chapter Naomi may not see it yet but she is not
32:38without hope in fact God is about to do something quite unexpected in the name
32:45of Jesus
32:51Amen
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